If you are a victim of trauma, or if you have ever been diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder (DID), you have probably struggled with Parts that feel stuck in the past. This is very common, and time confusion can be a normal aspect of working through trauma and the overall recovery process. The Internal Family [...]
Research has shown that people rarely comprehend the impact that sex addiction can have on its victims. This includes everyone from family members and friends to professional therapists. This may come as a surprise, but the reality is that many trauma counselors label the partners of people struggling with sex addiction unfairly. This includes but [...]
Quite often, when we think of Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), the various Parts, and the Self, we consider the more obvious ways the Parts communicate that they are there. For example, Parts can cause intrusive thoughts, disturbing images in the mind, feelings that are difficult to manage, and even strange body sensations. However, the Parts [...]
Discovering that a partner has been living a hidden sexual life can be deeply traumatic. Many spouses describe the moment of discovery as emotionally overwhelming, bringing feelings of shock, betrayal, anger, confusion, and grief. You may find yourself replaying conversations, questioning past memories, or wondering how someone you trusted so deeply could have been living [...]
Finding support for trauma or addiction is rarely a casual decision. For many people, visiting our website is not about browsing. It is about searching for clarity in a moment that already feels heavy, uncertain, or emotionally charged. We know that when someone lands on our site, they may be looking for answers they have [...]
If you are the spouse or partner of someone who is battling sexual addiction, you probably already have so much you are dealing with. Navigating the healing process is challenging, which means there may be some things that you overlook. Because your situation is so unique, it is helpful to stop and consider the following [...]
The Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model of treating trauma is so effective because it addresses a core problem many trauma victims experience – effectively understanding their Parts once they become aware of them. Once a person understands their Parts, they can move toward managing them appropriately. Even so, this is not something a person can [...]
One of the most fascinating aspects of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is listening to the various Parts disclose secrets they are keeping from the other Parts. The fact that this phenomenon occurs at all lends proof to how relevant this method of trauma therapy is. It also clarifies how ineffective the memory disclosure approach [...]
Relational trauma (also called betrayal trauma) takes place when the person you love the most betrays you to the point of sending you straight into crisis mode. In some instances, the betrayal only lasts a short time before true healing begins to take place. However, that is not the case for everyone. For the vast [...]
Many trauma victims suffer from dissociative identity disorder (DID) without realizing it. They struggle with all the classic symptoms, which are bothersome and often cause issues in their day-to-day lives. However, they may be nervous about getting a formal diagnosis because they do not understand that process. Let’s talk about what to expect if you [...]
As a Registered Psychotherapist, Betzalel specializes in the treatment of trauma and addictions. He is trained in EMDR and is a Certified Multiple & Sex Addiction Therapist-Supervisor, providing evidence based treatment to individuals and their partners dealing with these types of challenges. To learn more, please click here.
