If you are the spouse or partner of someone who is battling sexual addiction, you probably already have so much you are dealing with. Navigating the healing process is challenging, which means there may be some things that you overlook. Because your situation is so unique, it is helpful to stop and consider the following [...]
The Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model of treating trauma is so effective because it addresses a core problem many trauma victims experience – effectively understanding their Parts once they become aware of them. Once a person understands their Parts, they can move toward managing them appropriately. Even so, this is not something a person can [...]
One of the most fascinating aspects of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is listening to the various Parts disclose secrets they are keeping from the other Parts. The fact that this phenomenon occurs at all lends proof to how relevant this method of trauma therapy is. It also clarifies how ineffective the memory disclosure approach [...]
Relational trauma (also called betrayal trauma) takes place when the person you love the most betrays you to the point of sending you straight into crisis mode. In some instances, the betrayal only lasts a short time before true healing begins to take place. However, that is not the case for everyone. For the vast [...]
Many trauma victims suffer from dissociative identity disorder (DID) without realizing it. They struggle with all the classic symptoms, which are bothersome and often cause issues in their day-to-day lives. However, they may be nervous about getting a formal diagnosis because they do not understand that process. Let’s talk about what to expect if you [...]
When a client who has gone through a traumatic experience first begins dealing with the aftermath of that experience, their internal world is nothing short of chaos. That chaos continues until the proper form of therapy is received to help them begin the healing process. The Internal Family Systems model of therapy focuses on identifying [...]
If your marriage has been threatened because you recently discovered your spouse’s sexual addiction, you have probably heard many terms that you do not completely understand. It is very likely that the term, attachment bonds, is one of them. In this article, we will take a moment to discuss attachment bonds in greater detail as [...]
Dissociative identity disorder, or DID, is much more common than many psychiatrists want to admit. In fact, the vast majority of them refuse to acknowledge its existence at all. Instead, they prefer to diagnose clients or patients with clear DID symptoms as having borderline personality disorders. If you are a trauma victim, finding a therapist [...]
Many trauma victims develop a method of survival and coping strategies that involve self-alienation. However, this method does not lead to healing, which is why it is more effective for therapists to teach their clients that every Part matters. Even if the Self is fully functional, each Part has an important role to play. In [...]
If your spouse has a sexual addiction, you have likely experienced extreme trauma as a result of their actions. Safety-seeking behaviors are common for trauma victims in your situation because your entire world has just been turned upside down by your spouse’s betrayal. Like many couples, you once felt safe and secure in your relationship [...]
As a Registered Psychotherapist, Betzalel specializes in the treatment of trauma and addictions. He is trained in EMDR and is a Certified Multiple & Sex Addiction Therapist-Supervisor, providing evidence based treatment to individuals and their partners dealing with these types of challenges. To learn more, please click here.
